Painful sex and irritant itchy vagina?
July 6, 2010 by admin
Filed under Infection Male Yeast
….we’re done having sex then it hurts when I pee sometimes, it’s itchy, and burning in my vagina sometimes. Initially we thought it was a lubrication problem but he always makes sure that I am very very wet before he tries to have sex and it still hurts like a mother sometimes. The pain is at the bottom of my vagina opening & the bridge part between the vagina and butt) feel like it has ripped there. He is really big and I am pretty small so even after all these months of having sex it’s always a tight fit. When I dont *** my natural discharge is white & thick.
Does or can this have any effect on a male? Ive been experiencing these symptoms for four days now and havent had sex since then because its painful and I didnt know what it was. I looked at my boyfriends penis today for the first time since this little problem and noticed blotchy dry rash-like areas. If I do infact have a UTI/yeast infection can this cause any harm to my boyfriend? Its not painful in anyway for him btw
Just to provide you all with a little more info my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 yrs, theres no way were not use to eachother sexually by now including his large size, ive been using the same method of bc (pill) for a yr and a 1/2, we have no previous or other current sexual partners plus have been tested for stds (both neg. not the case)
Btw my boyfriend refuses to see his family dr because hes embarrassed and it doesnt bother him. He believes its just dry skin even so I still want him to do something… Is there a specific lotion/cream for dry skin "down there" safe for him to use? Or if he does give in, do I just get him checked at any clinic?
I made an appt to see my obgyn this week, I just wanted to know what to expect when I go or if I could take care of it myself-like with lube, creams, or some of the other stuff suggested THANK YOU, everyone!!
oh and christiana w. im allergic to penicillan-thanks neways 
you’ve got a yeast infection….or a UTI………go to the nearest clinic and see a doctor and stop for now until it clears up………..your symptoms are indicative of a yeast infection……..
I’d visit the ob-gyn about this.
Uh…hello, that is gonorrhea, that’s God’s punishment for having sex when you aren’t supposed to. Go to the doctor and get some penicillin.
Sounds like a yeast infection to me but call the doctor.
Idk about the rash on him though, that doesn’t sound good, could be an STD…go get checked!
it could just be friction. the same thing will happen to my husband and i if we are too rough or if i am not wet enough. your natural lubrication can come and go during sex. If you are really concerned…see a doctor.
you may have a yeast infection, take a trip to your gyno. if thats what you have it wont hurt your boyfriend but he can keep reinfecting you with it. i’d suggest you use some ky lube or something in the future, it will make a big difference. good luck
Ok he either passed an STD on to you or you have a yeast infection or bladder infection….don’t have sex until you figure it out because it will make the situation worse. Go to the doctor girl, and get checked for eeeeeeeverything.
i was just thinking……why don’t you see a dematologist or a gynaecologist
go see your gyno!
def. could be a uti, but it may be another type of infection. don’t play guessing games with this, see a doctor/nurse practitioner as soon as possible.
Sounds like chlamydia.
Yes it can harm your bf.
It’s easily treated with about a weeks worth of antibiotics.
It affects males in a similar way, but some people show no symptoms for days.
Also check to see you don’t haveendomitriosis.
It sounds like he is the one with a problem, and is passing it on to you. Something is very wrong, and you both need medical attention — not "help" from a bunch of strangers on Yahoo!
sounds like thrush,if it is he may need to put cream on as well
You need to get tested for bateria infections and stds. Especially if he has any kind of change then it could be an STD. Either way you need to go get treatment b/c it can cause you long time harm. Plus why go through the pain? Good luck to you.
Idk. I’d see a doctor. You may wanna ask your bf how long he has had those for. And, though I’m a guy. let me just say OUCH! That sucks.
ouch
might be yeast. might be std. go to a doctor and get it checked. take your boyfriend and have him looked at too. that way you both get treated and get better at the same time and dont keep giving fungus or bacteria back and forth to each other.
well, it may be because he is too big for you…..But it would be a good idea if you get yourself checked….Seriously!!!, Herpes, HIV, AIDS, is around the block and you don’t even know what some of this symptoms you are having…..The point is just take care of yourself, and go to an appointment as soon as possible…
so like im not a nurse or doctor or anything….but may want to get checked for stds dear….sounds like you may have something? or maybe hes just a bit big for ya. dunno what could be the problem..hope everything goes well for ya tho. good luck.
If you are really concerned I would highly recommend you not waste your time here. Go see a doctor.
well it sounds like you tore, and have a yeast infection, and maybe a UTI. your boyfriend and you should seek treatment because a man can contract a yeast infection and while it might not make too much difference to him (could be the rash though) he could continue to give it back to you. you should go to the doctor and get checked out, peace of mind is priceless.
Sounds like a yeast infection which you could pass on to him and he could pass it back to you. I would restrain from sex until it clears up. I know the painful part and mine has never gotten better and that has been for nearly 36 years. Don’t know the answer because I tried lubricants and everything else.
There could be something wron with you or you’re boyfriend, please answer my quetion!!
Yeah, it sounds like he’s reacting to your yeast infection. That’s not uncommon. I’m so sorry to hear about the pain your experiencing during sex. But, I guess if you’re fully lubricated and it still hurts like that, it’s just a matter of size. Hopefully your body will start to adjust to his size. Good luck with that =(
But, yeah, he was affected by your yeast infection. That happened to my friend once, and she just let him use some topical cream from a treatment kit on him, and he was fine.
Your body may be reacting to the chemistry of his semen if you are not using a condom. Otherwise, the size could be the issue, but more than likely it is the duration of your sexual encounter and the friction in your pelvic region. His pubic hair, if not well groomed, could be agitating. Try incorporating a lube like KY instead of just natural moisture. Also, try to use a condom or have him pull out for ejaculation. Trim both of your pubic hairs. If you go more that once in one sexual encounter, be sure to use the artificial lube and be prepared to stop him once you feel the onset of any irritation. It is when you push yourself that you can feel the prolonged discomfort. This will give you a better turn around time for your next sexual encounter so you are not wasting so much time recovering, and he will appreciate that, even if he wanted to keep going and had to stop.
The irritation from sex can definitely throw off your vaginal chemistry and cause a yeast infection. If you have never had one before, go to the doctor to be diagnosed. Doing what I have previously said will help you prevent re-occuring yeast infections from sex.
it might harm him im not a doctor so i cant tell you for sure go to your doctor and talk to him/her about it sounds pretty bad and serious to me but i think maybe you should get someone to take a look at it if i were a doctor i would try to help more but sorry hopefully you and him will pull through good luck.
I feel bad i hope you and him are allright hopefully youll get better soon.
Good luck you can do it!:)
it could be an STD that a male carries but shows no symptoms for. however that STD could be passed onto a woman when u dont wear a condom and this STD can cause problems for a woman wheras a man may not even know that he has it. because his penis has a weird rash and u find it hard to pee and because u said ur vagina gets irritant indicates it could be an STD like this. if i was u id go to a clinic and have an STD test and if anything is found then tell ur bf, im sure he wouldnt knowingly pass it on but he should know as well and they can get rid of it before it gives u lasting damage to ur ovaries and occasionally an STD can damage ur mental health and well as sexual.
the yeast infection could be the underlining cause and helped create more infections, i would get a test and sort out that infection before i had sex again!
good luck x
yes go to the doc soon
I would go to my doctor as it can be some kind of infection.
This could be yeast or a reaction to whatever method of birth control you are using. He won’t be harmed by the yeast, but you could pass it and the UTIs back and forth between the two of you. The UTIs could eventually cause kidney damage. I’d suggest holding off on sex until you have BOTH finished courses of treatment, and then using lots of KY (the old-fashioned jelly kind) to supplement your natural lubricant.
After three years of switching between chemical birth control methods, I found that Yazmin is the only pill I can take. Alessa, pills similar to it, and the NuevaRing gave my man a rash. We thought we were going to have to tie my tubes (which would be another problem since the main reason I take the pill is to regulate my periods and keep me from flowing so much I was chronically anemic) until I found Yazmin.
BTW: My man is really big also!